Yes—Black Tie Optional. We invite guests to dress in elevated, formal attire. A tuxedo or dark suit is recommended, along with evening gowns, polished cocktail dresses, or elevated separates. Please note: the ceremony and cocktail hour will be outdoors on grass, weather permitting.

Yes, there is a large parking lot (self-park only, no valet). Please note that the grounds and entire first level of the mansion are handicap accessible.

Yes—please check our Travel page for which hotels will have a shuttle pickup.

Although we love all the kids in our lives, our venue space is limited—so the ceremony and reception will be adults-only. We hope this gives parents a chance to relax, celebrate, and enjoy a night out! Thank you for your understanding.

We’ll be having an unplugged ceremony. We ask that you please silence and put away all phones, devices, and cameras so that everyone can be fully present for this special moment. We appreciate your understanding.

Please let us know when you receive your formal invitation. You’ll be able to specify your needs when you RSVP, and we’ll make sure the caterer is prepared to accommodate you.

Smoking is prohibited throughout the grounds and mansion. There is a dedicated smoking area noted with a sign.